Laughing Lines: Good Vibes In Tough Times

LaughingI’ve been doing a lot of laughing today. One of the jokes that got me giggling was: What do you eat on a Christmas cake that flies through the air? Tarzipan! Of course it’s not always the originality or cleverness that sets me off chuckling. But I love the positive energy it generates.

I admit I’m hopeless at remembering or telling jokes. But every now and again my mouth chucks out a comment or two that get people laughing. Which always gets me joining in the laughter too. I love that we can share a silly, funny, hilarious moment with each other. It’s a wonderful way to spread the warmth and joy that the sound of laughter brings. I also love that in the laughter filled moments we forget to take life quite so seriously. Yes, bad things are happening all over the world. And I know that we have to address how we live together as a global community. But I sometimes wish that before every important meeting there was a half hour laughter session.

Imagine how different it would feel to sit down and talk to someone when you have just been wiping the tears of laughter away. When that feeling of sharing, warmth and friendship is flowing. I know that’s how I feel when I’ve been laughing with my friends. We have been sharing a moment of two of closeness. It took me a long time to recognise the wisdom of laughing my cares away. Yet it was something I noticed in the older and wiser people around me. I know that senior members of my family have been through much tougher times than me. Somehow they hung on and and kept going. Now I can see much more clearly it was the shared laughter that boosted them. Made the world feel less awful for a moment or two.

What a blessing for me today then. Laughing and joking with great friends. Taking me into my Monday morning with a big smile. One I can keep all week if I wish. Because all I have to do is think about the jokes again and I will be laughing once more.

Day 801 of my blogging challenge

Humour Is Infectious: Laugh And Laugh Some More

Humour Dr John Cooper ClarkeHumour! I’m certain we need more laughs in our lives. Tonight I got the chance to see John Cooper Clarke and I laughed the whole evening. So did everyone else.

I love the way things happen. Quite a few months ago one of my lovely friends mentioned she had got a ticket to go and see John Cooper Clarke. As it fell around the same time as my birthday I decided to treat myself and get a ticket too. I’ve been a fan of his performance poetry since about 1979. His verses were part of the backdrop to my coming of age as an adult. I enjoyed his humour. It fitted with the way the people around me spoke. I found it very down to earth, full of fun and also deeply meaningful. Until recently I still had my original copy of his book ‘Ten Years in an Open Necked Shirt’. Unfortunately it got water damaged and I felt sad letting it go.

Because humour is what keeps me going. When I am snowed under with woe, worry or wrangling I look for the joke. Even if it turns out to be on me. Limericks, funny poems, jokes so old they came from the ark, I enjoy a good laugh. I love to laugh in the good times as well as in the bad. Some of my best memories are filled with laughter. I enjoy that my Dad, Irish through and through, couldn’t resist all of the Irish jokes he heard. And that my Mum watched all the comedy programmes she could. They taught me that it’s only a joke if the other person is laughing. As well as to be able to laugh at myself. They also helped me understand not to judge humour but to search it out wherever I could find it.

Tonight I’m still chuckling about the performance. About the tears of laughter I cried. Along with the feeling that life is wonderful when we all share in the laughter. John Cooper Clarke may not be your humour of choice. But please make sur you laugh as much as you possibly can. Life will feel much lighter. And that’s a great thing to experience.

Ps: I replaced my book with a new, signed copy. Wonderful!

Day 691 of my blogging challenge